Town Hall #14: Frends

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I've accumulated accidental friends over the years. At some point we got stuck together, and now we feel comfortable together, and so we complicitly waste each others' time.

But recently I met a handful of people I admire deeply. Suddenly some of my accidental friends feel like obligations.

I don't know what to do with this feeling. I don't want to be a clout-chasing sociopath, nor do I want to be telling the same stories to the same people ad infinitum.

Take a look through your recent text conversations. Who do you chat with regularly? Do they inspire you? Are you weighing them down? Are you truly compatible or merely comfortable? What does a healthy friendship look like?

These aren't rhetorical questions -- email me with your personal experiences.

You can't force friendships, but you can totally study them.

New Writings

Parenting:

• ☆ much worse than kids stomping that pig’s bladder
• Profitable Parenting
• “Somebody Tranq That Child!”

GPT:

• How would you like ChatGPT to respond?
• rvnx’s “Penis Table Test” for LLM Censorship
• gpt’day mate

Food:

• ☆ How I Eat
• The Lazy Garbage Nursery Guide
• 56% of McNugget Carbon is Corn

Living:

• ☆ I’m a Coin Boy, Too
• ☆ King of the Bunny Hill
• P**fectionism Isn’t Your Problem
• Chloe is a listener
• How to Become Exponential
• go big or go small or go home but don’t go medium

Software development:

• Easy Email Tokens in Pure Postgres
• ☆ How/Why to Sweep Async Tasks Under a Postgres Table
• Share Demos Every Friday
• Man Spends Entire Career Mastering Crappy Codebase

Other:

• Apple should acquire Wolfram Research.
• my battlestation

New Interviews

• Changelog #559: "Vibes from Strange Loop"
• Changelog & Friends "#15: #define: a game of fake definitions"

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